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such a big adventure for you... I live a ways away from my mom, not as far as you are going, but I do have to say the distance has brought us closer toghether, we talk on the phone virtually daily and when we do visit is for longer time spans...and it is more of a visit than just a dinner now and then. enjoy your adventure.
 
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Oh! Thank you so much Mo and Marzi . . I will be leaning on my poo buddies a LOT for solace!! I'm a little less anxious about the move itself . . the biggest hurdle now is selling out house . . and the preparation for viewing is exhausting . . going from one task to the next, we have a list that is about half done . . and working . . . and of cource the poos "helping" with everything!! right!! Freddy leaves in less than 2 weeks and then I will be on my own for working, taking care of Sami and Carley and my mom . . keeping the house as spotless as possible (good luck with that) and spontaneous viewings . . and packing whatever I can in between. Have Mercy!! Oh and the yardwork also . . I will be flying to Ohio may 20th for 3 days of looking for a house there . . so what to do with my poos????? I worry about them more than anything else . . My mom has volunteered to come over most of the day until bedtime and put Carley in her crate and leave Sami out on his own during the night. I am soooooo nervous about that as she is 83 and I fear her tripping over them or just being overwhelmed. I checked into boarding . . but despise the thought of them in a crate all day . . they get 2 exercise times . . but it will really upset them as they both hate the vet office now . . will have to make a decision . . my daughter has 3 children and keeps 3 others and has a dog of her own that HATES Sami so thats out . . What to do? My mom has a very elderly little dog that she cannot bring over here, hence why she cannot stay the night. Sorry to ramble on so. A good note is Freddy will be flying home for the final move with his boss to help us move . . so we will both be able to drive together . . this is a hugh comfort that I will not be driving alone with my poos!!! His boss will drive the big moving van. Thank you all again for your encouragement . . . after the house selling is over and we find a home there I will be very excited . . RETIREMENT possibly and cant wait to see their reaction to the snow!!!
 
they are going to love the snow!!! Lady sure does...she does puppy angels every time there is fresh snow on the ground...I can not guarantee you will love the snow though...lol.
it is so hard to keep a house in pristine condition...paper plates and eating out always helps. ;)
 
Is it possible to get someone in to house sit with the dogs? We have companies in the Uk that do this. Or the dogs go and stay with the sitters they live in the sitters home, have their walks. its a nice set up. Just a thought.
 
Nanci,

I haven't been around much so just catching up with your news. I am sorry you are having to up-root your life after being so settled and with your family around you. I hope the move brings some positives for you and you don't fret too much. Your dogs will get you through and your husband will be glad to have you by his side. I am sure it will all work out for the best, I do believe all things happen for a reason. I think you are amazing also by the way. You seem to be taking it all better than you think. Change is good, it's refreshing and new. I know it's scary and I too would be worrying about every last detail but that's the loving mum, nurse, homemaker and wife in you. You are striving for what's best for you and your family as much as you can. I wish you all the best in your move and hope you can find some excitement in your venture! X
 
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Nanci - if I was close enough I'd come and look after your gorgeous 'poos, I quite fancy snuggling up with Sami! :p

I'd look for someone to come and live in with your dogs. You could maybe trial run them when Freddy first goes away - that way you'd have some company and help with the dogs too.
Good luck with the keeping the house clean thing... not my strength - but maybe Colin could fly out with a mop - he is obviously brilliant at cleaning and he could even give Sami and Carley a trim :D
You only need one person to buy your house - don't worry about the rest of them!
We'll pray hard - it will work out just fine, don't strive too hard.
 
Nanci - if I was close enough I'd come and look after your gorgeous 'poos, I quite fancy snuggling up with Sami! :p

I'd look for someone to come and live in with your dogs. You could maybe trial run them when Freddy first goes away - that way you'd have some company and help with the dogs too.
Good luck with the keeping the house clean thing... not my strength - but maybe Colin could fly out with a mop - he is obviously brilliant at cleaning and he could even give Sami and Carley a trim :D
You only need one person to buy your house - don't worry about the rest of them!
We'll pray hard - it will work out just fine, don't strive too hard.
My aunt just did this with her dog and apparently it went great. They bring their own food and the dog gets to stay in its own home.
 
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Oh Marzi . . I would LOVE it if you were close enough to help me!!! I am leaning towards letting my mom (83!!) come over and stay for 3 days. She has an older dog she would not be able to bring, but lives only 2 miles from me. She has begged me to let her do this, but my confidence is a little shaky as she is not totally steady on her feet and that scares me. She will not spend the night . . will crate Carley and leave Sami out as usual. She will go home to her own comfy bed and back at 7:30 (first light) to let them out and eat breakfast. She will stay a few hours and go home for a nap and to tend to her doggie. Back about 4pm . . feed again and stay until bedtime. Its either that or boarding. I am going to try a dry run after Freddy leaves just to see if she can handle them . . fingers crossed.
 
Nanci :D:D:D so pleased Freddy has secured a job , that much be such a relief to you both. Good luck with all your planning and preparation, hope your house sells soon. I hope you can enjoy your new venture and your possible early retirement, who knows you could maybe find yourself doing something different . Your family visits and get togethers are going to be all the more special in future. Enjoy finding new walks for Sami and Carley as you discover your new neighbourhood and meet new people, enjoy your new seasons and enjoy your new life. Like others have already said we'll still be here , were one of the constants :D :D
 
Have just caught up with this thread, Nanci, I'm so pleased for Freddy that he has a new job. I can imagine what an upheaval this is for you both and how unsettling it is. I can only echo what others have said so eloquently. Thinking of you both :):)
 
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