I took everyone's advice and spent the night on the floor with Molly down by her crate. We had a great night and what a bonding experience. As soon as started to whimper I would put my hand in her crate she would cuddle in and slept quietly for the night. Hubby and kids were thrilled as was I. She seems to be only able to hold her bladder for 2.5 to 3 hours max right now which is totally fine. Don't mind getting up with her as long as she is quiet the rest of the time. Going to do this again for a couple of nights gradually increasing the distance between us as she hated her crate. We also move the crate into the living room where we hang out which helped tremendously.